Wow, you met Lisa for a night out!? I'm so jealous that I live miles away, I would have loved to have joined you. Funny, our WAS wouldnt understand the friendships we have built up here and ot that we could tell them (maybe one day hey).
You sound like you have your head screwed on, so I am going to try and follow your lead! T keeps mentioning Passionate Marriage to me and I meant to get a copy, but I thikn I will now reading your quotes. I thught I was always acting in ways that were best for us in my R, but looking back, I guess I didnt always, and I could have altered my views if I had listened to him more. I think I have definetly learnt that lesson now. I'll make someone a great GF one day ! (hopefully him, but who knows).
I really liked that he texted you the photo..as it shows he was thinking about you. I missed what the meeting was about on Wednesday (to discuss money?). Is he ok with financial things, or do you think he finds it hard work and would rather not have to think about it? I ask becuase my ex is very forgetful and barely able to discuss financial things with me, so we have been firefighting all the time, but its because he has been depressed and just wants to be free of responsibility. I wondered if that was the same for your H?
You're doing so well, you dont "spin out" nearly as much as me !!!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
