well guys i chose the name badcompany as a referce and salute to the great Puppy Dog, for all his help and cut throat approaches.
the OM broke it off with my wife on august 15th, she was devastated, no one found out til this past week. She finally opened up and told me what happened with him, and I was there to listen when she opened up. She says "I know he'll be back, I hope I have the strength to say no this time"
of course this has nothing to do with me........she has told our mutual friend whether he is back or not, she will not get back with me; she "can't get past" the things I have done
those things are first and foremost, not being emotionally available, and working while she was home alone (couldn't help that one).
anyways, when she opened up about OM leaving her, I told her I wasn't there for her before a lot of times, but I am now. trying to make peace with the past.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love