Train In Vain - Infidelity? - Help - Need Advise!!

[MsMelancoly]

I'm very POd - some at myself for not getting a prenup & for being so stupid in love at the time. Currently, all I can chalk it up to is "live & learn". I'm POd cuz this is the same thing he did with his 1st W. I thought he had changed....that we really had something ... special. I feel the fool - where's the dunce hat???

I'm POd at him for knowing & realizing that we were growing apart & thought the best thing to do was tell me & run away the same day. Not even giving me a chance to work on our M. I say MAN UP and stop being a f****ing child. I feel hurt & feel even more betrayed, because loyalty - is a big issue for me & he knows it. What a f***ing b***rd.

I feel annoyed cuz my sister & friend there - didn't give me any understanding, only the yada yada lecture to D cuz you deserve better. (True I do)... but like you can turn love off like a faucet.