Nugget, you and I don't really know each other, but it seems to me that your W and you have a thing going on already?
I can't tell if there is thing going on between us or if she just comes over for the cheap company. Here she can kick back and relax. If she goes to her friends she has to feel like she needs to be attentive. I want to think it is because she actually wants to hang out with me, but the pessimist in me says she is likes the meals and the satellite TV. But, then again it was her friends B-Day today and her friend was burning up her phone texting her, trying to get my wife to come over, yet she chose to spend it with me at the pool today.
Originally Posted By: SirPrizeMe
you are telling her she is beautiful and calling her nicknames?
Yes, I started this about a month ago. At first she was very thrown off guard. Now she seems to be ok with it and responding well. It has become 2nd nature to me.
Originally Posted By: SirPrizeMe
you are already flirting with her.
No, not really. I am not sure how. I am afraid that I am going to offend her or she is not going to react to it well. Any tips???
Originally Posted By: SirPrizeMe
Another thought - find new stuff to discover, and find ways to include her. This brings back the newness. New restaurants. New places to visit. Start playing the guitar. Whatever. Newness is the thing. Discovering new stuff with someone is one thing that builds attraction.
I agree with you completely. We are in a rut. We are doing the same activities that we did when we were married. Nothing new and exciting to spark that needed interest in each other. Just mundane routine. I have got to find some type of recreational activity outside the home for us.
Originally Posted By: SirPrizeMe
just a couple ideas. good luck to you.
Thank you so much for your words. I greatly appreciate them.
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