BUT, there is another side to detachment....

When and if they come home.

Learning to reattach during the piecing is so so hard.

It was harder for me then the actual detaching.

Having to re-learn how to live with someone again and to be able to have to share your life again and give up half of the closet and be accountable for your time.

When he came home, after the MLC, I actually thought I was going to have a crisis of my own.



Beautifully said.

I've seen some folks detach enough they can't SEE nor WORK their baby steps. They let them fall by the wayside.


Or feel it's too little too late when the jackpot isn't all that far away now.


....so, BND, how did you come to grips with the reattaching, giving up closet space, and being accountable for your time?


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001