Yes, i have read both DB and DR. I have had one conversation with a DB coach and another tomorrow night. I have been DBing for about month now. It seems to have some effect on W.
She did not have an A. It was 33 years of being together and not yet not being together. She feels that she is getting more satisfaction from her job than she is in our R. she wants to be independent and alone. I have been seeing C since the bomb was dropped. She has said that she is as well, but I cannot verify that.
Yes again I plan on staying away from all R or M conversations. I have been doing my homework. I also read Men are from Mars and Woman or From Venus twice. I plan on listing very intently to very thing is saying to validate her conversation.
Yes once again. I do not want the old R back, but I very much want to start a new one with W. I want and will share my life with someone and the W is the one I want to share it with. I know it will take time and patient. I have come along way with GAL and PMA.
Your input is so very welcomed. I hope you will keep coming back to read my sitch and leaning a kind ear and advise. I will make another post after our meeting and let you know what happened. Thanks
