I just can't figure out when enough is enough. I am tired of the pain but I still love my wife. At least I love the woman she was...But the woman she is now is different and hates me, so I can't decide whether to close the book on this. I found myself saying I wanted to do this for my kids but I also have to think of my own happiness. I wish there was a way to know it is over but I guess I have to decide that for myself.
You just said it my friend, you have to make that decision for yourself. I am sure you will know when that time is right for you. I wish you the best in the meantime.
