Oh my gosh lady (or man). It's a metaphor.

I was just trying to lighten things up.

sg - could you help get us back on topic????

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10