MsMel, Bad turn of events. Sorry friend. I would go see the lawyer find out that angle it's part of the deal. Get some referrals, I asked some attorneys I knew, If you were getting divorced who would you use? Found out pretty quick who was good. Don't blame yourself. Real kick in the gut. You can handle it. I will supply the jokes, you just laugh. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.