Today my H & I have been living seperate for a year. Are biggest issue was & is not communicating & growing apart in our short M. (Don't know how to add my other thread - but it's - Happy When It Rains Me Condensed).
I went to a festival today w/friends & ran into my H's bandmate. We got talking & I found out my H has a "girlfriend" - Ouch! (Granted this is his pattern when R goes bad. So I kinda expected it). He is also a depressed person.
I have been staying away from R talk - on our meger communication. Before this happened today, I decided that I need to see a lawyer. And had decided that I need to find out if H still wants to be M. I have not emailed him but plan on doing so tomorrow.
I suppose I shouldn't tell him that I know of OW. What do I want, stupid me, still wants my H back & to go to M counseling. Does anyone have any advise for me when contacting him??
Currently, I'm trying to detox from the info I received today.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
