I just can't figure out when enough is enough. I am tired of the pain but I still love my wife. At least I love the woman she was...But the woman she is now is different and hates me, so I can't decide whether to close the book on this. I found myself saying I wanted to do this for my kids but I also have to think of my own happiness. I wish there was a way to know it is over but I guess I have to decide that for myself.


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon