I don't think you're off target at all. My XH Hates it when I try and control his life. Maybe he does need to regain control over his life a bit more. Could be.
I agree that he's gone into his cave and I really should let him do it more completely. He's never gone completely into the cave and maybe it might be good for him if he did.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
