A consultation with an attorney is not bad. You are just protecting youself. I had a consult back in Feb when I first confirmed the PA.
I too love my W. BUT right now I do not like her very much - because of what she is doing. Moreso to our K's than me.
Know what you want. I can see it is your M - I totally understand. Do not pursue - concentrate on you and K's. The stuff with H will not happen overnight.
I have been told this is a marathon - and I do not like running very much. But I am here for the long haul - and I gather from your posts you are too. Remember we are all in this together.
Will be in touch...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.