Coach, we all thought you ran as far as you could from us lol!
The strategies that you use for sports can easily be applied here. If someone can decide how they will react to different situations they are more likely to be successful.
I know that his negative thoughts are not a reflection of me but are his interruptations of events in the past. I cannot control how he sees things nor can I make him see anything differently than he does. I can only hope that he'll remember more positive things when he's ready. But that's the way the WAS is isn't it? They see everything in the R as negative alomost as a way of justifying leaving.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
