Maybe it's Midlife Crisis at any age?

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Had a talk with my H today. He says he "...not going to forgive me this time" for my backslide last Monday. Also says he is not going to see me until I "...get it together." It's just an excuse. He comes up with one reason after another, and it's constant. He says, if I don't give him what he wants, "...we will just have to see each other in front of a mediator."

I love this one..... when I ask him if he loves me he says, yes, "But I am going to protect myself."

Ok. I understood that Michele told you to go dark, which is different than not initiating. How did you get into this conversation?

Why did you ask him if he loves you ... that's pursuing.