FIB, I just want to jump onto this thread really quick. I'm new to piecing, but not DBing. As far as "people dont change" I totally disagree. Look how many changes all of us DBers have gone through. I think it is more approperate to say people dont change unless they are forced to. Our WAS changed from the loving partners we had to angry people trying to run from us. This change occured as a result of unhealthy relationship cycles that kept building and growing between both partners. We have the power in us to break these cycles and help to bring about positive changes in us and our WAS. Just my 0.02 worth.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008