I've been thinking about things and I think maybe there's a something that I haven't mentioned which might also be affecting how things are moving between my wife and I.
Just folllowing the big split... after several weeks of begging, pleading, etc I basically gave up all hope of reconciliation with my wife. At around this time I became involved with somebody else. This relationship was unstable and did not last at all... but my wife knows about it.
Maybe this has had some affect on her.
Anyway... we met again yesterday and we had a nice night. Going to see her tomorrow.
I feel very much as though things are positive between us. That said, I do think that she may be secretly reviewing her decision to end her affair. I'm not convinced she would start up the affair again.. but something tells me there is unfinished business between her and the OM.
I dont know.
I mentioned transparency to her yesterday and she responded by admitting that any relationship is based on trust and there cant be secrets between people. I feel she might address these things soon. I think I just have to be patient for a little while longer.
