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She threatened to get a lawyer, find out her rights, kick me out, etc..


And be prepared if she returns to this strategy.

Although what you have done frank...I know..is NOT what you wanted in your heart...doing this begins the ultimate 'detachment' and, also, you will feel some relief in that you also take back a part of your control.

Now...you control your life.

I like what Imageer said. I miss my kids dearly when they are not with me, but, I am using the time now to take care of things that I have not been able to do...fix up the outside of the house..do paperwork....etc. Try not to dwell on the negatives and find postives in your life.

Restore yourself.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;