Had to add, H seems downright chipper about getting this D filed this week. I think he really enjoys having me in his life as a friend and co-parent, but is relieved to be done with me in the married sense. He can have his new life, SINGLE life with no guilt, his good job, his kids, and good ol' lwb around as his friend. I am fine being his friend, and actually being divorced will free me of one thing, he can no longer be the husband who is actively cheating on me.
I know I am only guessing and projecting H's 'D chipperness', but its how I feel.
