Thanks for asking... No progress from H. I really don't like who he has become. He's immature and selfish - qualities he always had, but never so out of control. I just plain don't like him, although I've accepted that I will probably always love him unconditionally.
My "warm & fuzzy" crusade is on hold for now. I don't want him back like this. Maybe it's because I don't have the strength right now... I'm still processing these new feelings of really letting go of him. I really am fine, but almost every night I have this feeling of overwhelming sadness for H and my kids. No crying, just sadness - and it's gone by the time I wake up. Maybe I'm experiencing the grief of really letting him go? I don't know.
Although I can't figure out how I would ever meet anyone with my schedule and lifestyle, I am definitely open to meeting someone new. Not necessarily right now, but hopefully one day. 2 years later and H seems to be going backwards. I think it's a lost cause.
Your sitch, OTOH, is progressing nicely! I think it's great that H wanted your opinion on the property. Sounds to me like he's thinking of his future with you in it. You know our motto around here, but I'll remind you one more time: zero expectations and large doses of patience.
