SG: I SO can relate! I know that I was just so stubborn and so much not wanting to "LOSE" that I lost sight of the fact that my M had tons of problems. More than most people I'm certain of that. But I was really in denial about it. I did not want to be divorced! But I also DO NOT WANT to be with him. No sir. Nada. No way! I am happier than ever at my freedom.
I'm glad your son has found a place to live. I knew it work out - it always does.
I'll be off to Iowa in a month as well. Girls w/e at a football game at U of Iowa. Friend is the Golden Girl so we go to watch her twirl baton.