I have just read your thread from the top of the page. Not much to go on, I know. But, I see you two are both dark and dim. I am in this same place. AND, I believe I need to take some lessons from both of you.
JCJ, thank you for your input on my sitch the other day in TwinDad's thread. I guess that is what brought me here today. I see you've been separated for a year. I have only been separated for three months, but my sitch is such that we are in the same place because H is pushing the divorce forward. He dropped the bomb, moved out and retained his attn, all in one week. The week after that, I caught him coming out of our driveway with OW. So, now we are dark with each other, and I feel like I'm having to catch up emotionally at rocket speed. Tis taken a toll on me mentally, spiritually and physically.
Thank you both for your words. I'll try to come back here often.
poet P.S. I love the quotes above, from the books you're reading. May I copy them to my thread?
