That goes without saying, you should be doing that now.
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I just feel like a loser waiting for something that may never happen.
I felt like a loser for the longest time. I felt like I walked around with "Failure" written across my forehead.
You are not waiting for something to happen that may never happen. You have a goal and you are working towards that goal. Anything worth having is worth fighting for.
To me, what it comes doesn to is what are you going to bring to another R if you are not over your W. Just because she ran out and divorced you doesn't mean that YOU are done.
If moving on is what you want to do then do it. It is your choice and I won't fault you for that. However, you don't seem like you want to move on, you just want the hurting to stop.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford