oh my .... sorry to hear this, SD. Good to know otherwise you're OK. Post as and when you're ready, we will be here.

Wanted to add some food for thought ... this is from the DR book, right at the end of the chapter on infidelity:

"Once a person is obsessed or addicted to a particular behaviour, s/he won't make the decision to change until they have suffered some losses. They need to realise their behaviour is causing serious problems for them."

I am NOT suggesting you file for a D, only you can make that decision.

I agree this is a really tricky one ... anyhoo, will leave you in peace for now, post when you feel ready.

Take care ((((((((SD))))))))


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.