((Lisa)) I had a great post typed out to you last night. But it was so frustrating as the site just kept logging me off. Aaahh! I gave up after about 40 minutes. The draw back of being in the future is that no-one is ever around at the same time!
Anyway I wanted to say I think you have a great chance of reconciling your marriage - you are so determined, I'm sure you are going to win him back. And he's crazy!
Thanks as always for your encouragement and advice.
Your posts really made me smile this morning- thank you!
I hope you're all having great weekends. Thank you for always supporting me and pointing out the good things that H does. It really helps me focus on positives.
And Essie- I'm so disappointed that I mssed your awesome mega-post last night. Maybe I need to come to the future?! Thank you for being so confidently positive that my determination will win H back. That and hopefully the ongoing glimpses on my melons!
Hi Lisa. I would love to find you and Kalni on FB. My real name is very common and there are lots of people with the same name . Do you or Kalni have unusual names, that it would make it easier to find you?
Just an update on what I did yesterday- watched the Olympics and then went out in the evening. it always strikes me, when I'm out, how the men I meet are generally not in the same league as H. Obviously nights out are not the way for me to think about finding a new man in the future (if I need to).
Anyway, good news is that I made a new friend. She's over here from Canada and we really hit it off. One of my goals for this year was to make 2 new good close (RL) friends. I've done that, but exceeding my goals always makes me feel good. LOL!
It's raining so another indoors type day. More Olympics, I think.
Hey Essie...I created a new FB account as my alias here and no, didnt use my own one... as wouldnt want my RL friends linking into this dbing stuff! They know about it, but I think its like a special group of people that need to be kept separate.
Get yourself on there !!
Lisa... I know exactly what you mean and I find that so annoying... the men I meet are in now way as compatible as my ex and I have little respect for them.
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
It really IS so annoying that the great hot men are few and far between! Having said that, there was a really really hot guy at the proms yesterday but we left before he could talk to us He looked good enough to eat!!
Had a great day yesterday- watched the Olympic handover, complete with umbrellas, bus, hedgerow and David Beckham, and got really excited about 2012. In the evening Julia and I went to the Albert Hall (outside and inside to listen to Bach's St John's Passion. It was absolutely beautiful and only �5 so it was a bargain too.
I ended up sending H a text yesterday about football (it was a short bantering text about how his team were top of the league after a lucky victory and to enjoy it ewhile it lasted). He replied in record time (within 2 hours) with a bit of reciprocal banter. I replied at around 11pm (having been distracted by GAL stuff) with more banter, and I've just had a text from him this morning continuing it. I'm pleased because
1. bantering about the football was something we used to do all the time when we first met and were seeing each other. In fact, the first time I really knew H liked me was in a teasing message he sent me about football.
2. H and I are in contact over a weekend by text- although we've exchanged the odd text at the weekend over the past couple of weeks, actually having a dialogue by text is a small change.
Looks like it's going to be more continued football and work speak for now....
