well...let me tell you how my evening ended...

Hubby was supposed to pick up kids at 1130.... he didnt show up until 350..grabbed the kids ..said hey and left...didnt tell me when they were to be home..i knew they were going to fair..my sister was going to get them in free.

I wanted to appear like I had stuff to do ..so I did..ran a couple errands..needed hairspray and TP... got gas etc...

I did not know what time they would be home and did not want to be there when he did... waiting....

So my sister asked me to go to the fair... I said let me know when he leaves...

She called and said he doesnt want to stay ..come down I will get you in..ok sounds good

I am getting ready to look for parking and hubby calls and says..on my way...uhhhh.turn around I am right behind you...

He says ..take the kids...uhhhh..no..its like 700...he has had them 3 hours...I am going in with my sister to the beer garden.

Oh lord that pissed him off..he said I planned it, I was being vindictive and now the war is on ...we will part as enenmies...

All because he had plans...he siad..I dont feel well...I told him to go ahead and sleep on "our" couch... then I find out after spending the evening with our friends that he was going down there.

Also they let me know they think he is crazy to be with OW...
and last weekend when we were still together...he called her....

I did let him know that I knew and he was a complete liar..and she could have him..I am worth more and not playing his games!

This sucks I love him and now I have really lost him.
OK give me more advice..I will listen this time... what next


Sandy


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