I am here, and I will update when I can make sense of the jumble in my head. Nothing's bad, I just wonder a lot. Caught H not being truthful again, and contacting LW in a non-work manner. Do I think it's like it was? No...but the wondering is all about why he won't respect that boundary. Why does he continue to interact socially with her?

I'll update soon...I promise...but I've found I enjoy my life far more with my friends and GAL activities than I do with H. I've asked so little...and he doesn't deliver on the no contact thing, only lies by omission and hiding it.

Not sure what to say or where to go from here, you know?

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!