Originally Posted By: One Day
However, I don't think you should tell him he's not a bad person, just consistently thank him for good behaviours (DB Coach recommended this to me).


This is perfect. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this. I should have thanked H for opening up and sharing his feelings with me - as a way of thanking him for his good behaviours. I'm going to do this - and it will be a 180 for me.

Originally Posted By: One Day
how about sending a naughty text about how you really enjoyed feeling his sexy lips on yours yesterday night- compliment him in some way and show him you enjoyed it in a way he seems to want more of- a dirty way!!


YES! This is exactly spot on too. I will try it! Thanks love! Must compliment him on the things he does right.
I will check out piecing too. Not that I think I'm there yet, but its better to be prepared. ((Lisa)) You're the best!


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07