Update is: I sent H a text message this morning saying "Its a bueatiful day - are you going wake boarding?". To which he replied "Im on my way now". So then I wasnt sure if it would be OK to invite myself along or not. But i waited about 10 minutes, and then he text me "Do you want to come?". So I went with H - nice. He definitely wanted to impress me (boys are so silly!). I have a possum in my ceiling. I think the possum got in while H and co has been doing the bathroom rennovation. Anyway the possum is really really noisy at night. So I told H about it, and he offered that he would come and see me one night and we could wait for the possum to go out to feed at night, and then plug the hole up. It might work or it might not. So I've invited H for dinner tomorrow night, and a bit of possum hunting!! Have been thinking about the sex thing. Maybe it would be a 180 just to follow H's lead, instead of having sex on my terms. Letting him be in control more?? Please let me know what you think?!? I made sure I didnt touch him at all today when wake boarding - I guess I'm thinking that he needs to really make the moves physically, and then maybe it would bo OK just to let go and go with the flow?
