I hope you are both doing a little better today. It will get easier with each passing day. It just takes time--lots of it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi SF, I am doing ok but very much on the rollercoaster. Pretty complex sitch with H and I now living 2500 miles apart, H saying he wants to try to work things out but has continued to be dishonest. H is coming to visit for a week on Tuesday. I am praying to God to give me the strength to have compassion and be able to forgive all that has happened.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
Keep praying and have zero expectations. Will he be staying at your home?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thank you for responding to my thread. I have a reply there for you.
You hang in there too!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
Hi everyone! Addie, you didn't hijack my thread, I love reading all the posts!
I didn't get to work on my tan today, it was pretty cloudy but still no rain!! I am starting a new project. I have a wall in my bedroom that needs something. I used to cross stitch, it just seemed to take so much time & I taught myself so I wasn't sure I was doing it correctly, I guess I was everything I did turned out good. I started crocheting & did that for a while but just haven't done anything lately. I found 2 beautiful cross stitch patterns that I want to do for my bedroom so I got out everything to see what all I needed & I'm going to start on that. So, I'm rather excited about getting started back. Of course my eyes are not what they used to be so I'll have to use reading glasses, arg! Oh well, signs of the times.
You know I do feel a peace. It's like I'm trying with the no expectations but for some reason I feel like there is some hope. I don't know why I feel like that b/c in my sitch it doesn't look like any hope what so ever. I just keep praying, right now that is all I can do.
I really enjoyed my day, I didn't do too much but get my house straighted up some mostly I was lazy but that's ok too. I did baked a pie. One that was my H's favorite but I love it too so I decided to bake it for me this time!!
Tonight I watched the movie "Radio", I just love that movie!!!
((((HUGS)))) to all, I just appreciate you so much!!!!
nlt: sounds like you are making progress and doing things that will make you feel better.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm really trying. My H was always impressed when I would make things but then he would get upset if I was always making & not loving on him or us holding each other while watching TV. He would also get upset b/c the dogs always wanted to sit with us. So, I quit working on my crafts so I could pay attention to him & the dogs. My girls still want my attention but at least I'll be able to do both.
[quote=addie]SF, Yes H will be staying at our house when he comes to visit in 3 days. It has been 2 months since we've seen each other.
Wow--two months!!! I hope all goes well. You will have to let us know how the visit was.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
