I am so sorry about your father. My condolences also. To get hit with the death of a family member plus MLC spouse is so overwhelming. I hope you are taking care of yourself.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11