Yes, somewhere in one of the 2000 books that I've read it says that they tend to choose someone more neurotic than they are at the moment.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10