It's interesting the people that they choose to associate with. W use to hate the smell of cigarette smoke. If she was out with someone that smoked she would come home, shower and wash her clothes. Now OW is a smoker.
I think that they choose the first person that will have them. (a match made in heaven)
Maybe that's the secret to detaching.... You need to realize how crazy they are and how much their actions have nothing to do with you.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford