I commute 35 minutes one way. He gets to do whatever he wants whenever he wants - I'm at the house taking care of bills & animals. I'm here on a Saturday night - he's with his OW.
This was exactly my W when she first left. Before the bomb she desparately wanted a cat. After the bomb she became a partier and wanted nothing to do with the responsibility of having a cat. she told me that I was to keep it (I didn't want it) or she would give it away. I told her that D5 would be crushed if she gave it away but she didn't really care. She did end up taking the kids fish which she recently killed off. This from a woman that use to cry at the site of road kill or if an animal got hurt in a movie. Ironically, OW moved in with 2 cats and most recently brought a high-strung mutt of a dog home from the pound. W didn't look impressed
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
