My W is having work issues too. She has made a couple major mistakes and was worried about getting fired. She has also told me that a coworker told her that management was not happy with her performance. She has a big job and a lot of responsibility.

Also, W says that the woman that hired her "talks about her behind her back" Considering that everybody that she works directly with is married / family people (Versus the Single/divored/partiers that she worked with before the bomb) I can't imagine what she would have to talk about (sarcasm) considering W's lifestyle choices and the fact that they thought she was a married woman with children when they interviewed her only to find out that she abandoned her family, became a partier and lives the life of a lesbian as soon as they hired her.

This is unusual for W. She has always excelled at her job.

I've wondered in the past what effect it would have on this if she got fired.

To me, it all points to issues going on within her beyond marital trouble.


M35 W37
S9 D6
M12 yrs Know 15 yrs
Bomb 1/28/07
My Sitch
Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford