Hi Jen,

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Time to pull back and regroup. I won't initiate any activities for a while and give him time to pull back a bit too.


I've been reading some principles suggested in this book that I found interesting.

They're all pretty simple, but somehow when you see them listed they have more of an impact;

#19-There's nothing more prized to a man than something hae had to wait for, work for, or struggle a bit to get.

#20-As soon as a woman hands a man a more seriuos commitment on a silver platter, he'll be reluctant to take it.

#21-Don't be so blunt, obvious, or available that you come across as having made up your mind about the guy.

#22-You want to figure out his pattern, but don't let him figure out yours.

#23-Men are far more smitten when they feel like they are stealing your time away from something else you could have been doing.

#24-When a woman makes a man feel he's trusted, it makes him feel strong & worthy. It makes him want to be honorable & do the right thing.

I won't go thru all 75, but the common theme is mystery, confidence, keep it unpredictable, etc., all the things we pretty much already know, but somehow could use steady reminders along the way.

Here's to good weather coming your way......

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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