Ah, you would be the LBS (left behind spouse) and what you are seeing, hearing and experiencing is the BS (bullsh*t).

Sorry you're "new here" but you are in the right place.

I already sense you have a great sense of humor! That's half the battle won!

Can you relocate a few animals to his place while he's out with OW?

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13