Since I'm new here I don't mean to be funny but does BS mean betrayed spouse or bull sh..? I guess it works either way!

Anyway, certainly there's jealousy that I'm trying to detach from too. He's living walking distance from his job - I commute 35 minutes one way. He gets to do whatever he wants whenever he wants - I'm at the house taking care of bills & animals. I'm here on a Saturday night - he's with his OW.

Difficult detachment assignment!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10