What a day.. you'll never beleive what happend. \:\(

H was able to open his eyes just a bit to realize that own father was giving him the wrong medication. He was only giving him the steroid, not the antiboitic. so for 2 F****** days he hadn't even gotten the medication he really needed. If H would have been able to see he wouldn't have had to rely on his stupid father. (his father btw is notorious for doing stupid,idiotic things, but this takes the cake) His father is not one of my favorite people, he is selfish and manulipulating, and thank the lord he lives in Florida. But I thought at least he could handle giving him the right medication. So guys really , don't feel sorry for my FIL he has done many things over the years to my h, which is probably he is the way he is. But that's another story.

Anyway so now im freaking out, thinking his eye is even more damaged now because of not having the medication. H is furious. I knew in my gut that I should have just freakin flown over there and handle this myself. Now look where he's at, I called the hospital and they wouldn't speak to me, so I told H he had to try and open his eyes enough to dial so he could call. They told him to take the antibiotics every hour, (also if he had been taken them he would be so much better.. but he had to stuffer all this time b/c of no medication FOR NO REASON!!.. I broke down at the party, i was beside myself, I was ready to hop on a plane and get out there. H said he would be alright and to stay and be with our kids is more important.

So here I am, I just spoke with him, he's in a lot of pain right now, I will be inflicting some pain on my FIL when I speak to him

Well Im off to bed, im emotionally and physically drained right now. The kids at least had a good day.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.