Originally Posted By: naej
I just hate to see vunerable and weak people exploited.


This is exactly where my posts came from. I "was" one of these people until I finally decided "enough." I actually hated myself for allowing H to treat me the way he did for so long. Also, I hated the fact that it could make my D disrespect me since I so obviously didn't respect myself. I finally made him leave because I didn't want my D to think that our M'd life was "normal." It was far from it!!!

Leaving H was the best thing I ever did and I'm only sorry I didn't do it years earlier and not wasted so much of my life.

Yes, everyone has their own agenda and if I offended anyone, I'm sincerely sorry. It came from the first sentence on this post.

I really was just curious as to why some people hang on to a miserable situation for so long.

I'll be staying on my own forum from now on........