My STBXH's girlfriend's XH apparently is violent

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Well, big surprise, he wasn't able to do the last counseling session. He had the papers served last week, headed off to Vegas after making plans to take girlfriend to Hawaii in two weeks. Really hope ex-husband doesn't find out.

Right now I have my attorney doing a full back-ground check on both her and her ex. I think I'm probably going to have a restraining order placed on her to stay away from my kids until I can better monitor the situation. That shouldn't change anything that's going on between the two of them because she hasn't been introduced to the kids yet. This will just add one layer of safety between her XH and my kids for the time being.

This gal's whack, tho. Her XH is 32 years older than her, she has step-sons who are her age and five years older. She got fired from her employer last summer (our dentist, where she met my STBXH while cleaning his teeth) and sued them. This girl is drama and I just want the drama away from my kids.