The kids welfare is number one. If that means getting a lawyer and protecting your self and your kids, so be it. You don't need to feel guilty about doing that. Also I am sure , like myself you do not want to be with our wives as they are right now. That doesn't mean The lord cannot heal our relationships. We have our boundaries.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023