After all, in order to marry OW, he has to D me first! wishful thinking? - so I've decided not to think of it at all.
Stella, Remember the stats I posted on WAS marrying the affair partner - not very good odds. Unless you are certain you want the M to end now and decide to file for D, there's still time for H to change his mind. He would have to file and go through all the legal proceedings before he could M OW. A lot can happen in that time.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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