Thank you CMNM, I am glad that you at least have understood my pov.
Sg, I have never advised anyone to "move on" I take you mean to D by that. I have advised and suggest people stop doing nothing and sit waiting for their m to be miraculously saved to actually be pro active and GAL. To move forward, to look at their part in the breakdown of their marriage.I also believe prayer helps but I think we also need to DB our marriage, isn't that the whole point of this site? Isn't that why we buy M W Davis books? or should we all rush out and just buy the Bible asuming we don't already own one.
I have already made my view known that whilst other sites that are mentioned are edited out Rejoice Ministries gets free advertising continually I find that strange.
I am sorry that after many years on this BB and no I did not save my marriage. I did survive and lead a happy life dispite losing the man who had been by my side for over 45 years of my life. That let me tell you was by no means easy. I worked D** hard to bring myself back from the edge of insanity and despair, a huge part of that was the help given to me by folks on this site.
I now feel I am being hounded out because a woman I tried to help by suggesting she may need to try something different with both her alcohoic waw h and abusive son suggests I am the enemy ie read devil incarnate. And yes if this post sounds angry then you read that bit right at least.
