Here I am....real life and all.

[Rob1231]

Sara, Just like before - no telling what is motivating the mixed-up thoughts whirling through his addled brain. Try not to read too much into it one way or the other - work towards what is good and healthy and happy for YOU (whatever that may be), and don't let him suck you in while he spins in his little dance where "it's all about him".

Glad you are having fun dating. I'm sure you know all about "don't rush into anything" - but if it makes you feel better and valued and stronger for yourself, then I say go for it. (((Hugs!)))