I agree. You need to be less available to her. Although kids make it hard.
Personally, I don't tell my W much of what I do with my time at all. I've been going to the gym for 1 year and a half and I had never mentioned it to her. (We talk almost daily) I finally told her the other day but I think the kids had told her already. I try to keep what I do a mystery to her.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford