Weird that your H keeps dying his hair...is he really going gray??? My H told me today that he is getting a bunch of cosmetic dental work done. I have always wanted to grow old gracefully but now as it is staring me in the face, I might want to put up a little bit of a fight. Is this what our H's are doing...or does it go beyond that????
I think it goes beyond that. In Frank Pittman's book - he calls it The Turning Points of a Marriage & says "Suddenly, one awakens & finds him or herself married to a settled, mature, middle-aged person, who is looking forward to growing older rather than struggling to stay young. This realization can be a point of panic."
(I'm new at this & can't figure out how to work the quote box, sorry!)
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
