why do you say it's way to early??? H dropped the bomb 4/19/07. I believe his MLC started back when my father died 1/05. We have been seperated for over a year. H went absolutely crazy after the bomb and seperation. That lasted about 6 months. He seems to change every day. He is increasingly becoming more quiet. More like H. I have watched him damb near destroy himself and all that meant anything to him. The anger is gone. The childish behavior is gone (well mostly). The last couple of weeks I've watched him trying to detach from BIL and seems to be trying to drink less. He has been going home and staying home. Someone stop to see him a couple of weeks ago and he was sitting in his kitchen, in the dark. He has started to initiate stuff with me. He is around more, stays longer, and not p*ssed at me anymore. He is laughing with me, joking with me.

What is all that? I'm telling you, it's WAAAYYY different than what it has been.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!