I guess what it boils down to is that we all have our breaking point when we know we just can't do it anymore. My sister put up with physical abuse for years from her XH and is now M'd to the most wonderful man in the world. My X cheated on me with numerous women. He still provided well for our family and was a wonderful father to our D. What would be the breaking point for you?
I do not have a breaking point because I am relying on my faith in God to guide me. When I married, and I am sure everyone here will say this, God united us as one flesh. I have chosen to stand strong because I have no intention of ending my marriage.
Every marriage has its ups and downs and I have to say as H will also say, our marriage was a good one. We had disagreements but never talked back to one another, never fought.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
