You see, if they are not protecting you, then they are protecting your husband, the guy having an affair and divorcing you.
They have definately done that... protect him for a long time. Honestly, I don't even know if he goes to that church anymore. He may have joined another with his "Christian" ow - the ow that likes sleeping with other women's husbands. Or, maybe he just doesn't go to church.
Cat - I actually have found a new church that I have been attending this summer. Much more contemporary.. I like it..
Soo.. I thought we were well on our way to an agreement but stbx laid into me again regarding the FI side of the settlement. I told him we could always settle in court - the judge would award me more if we did. stbx thinks I'm being vindictive. I think I'm being completely reasonable.
Then, he tried to tell me that he still loves me. I said that was bs and even if he did his actions have shown that he hasn't respected me for a LONG time. Why do I even allow myself to be sucked into these conversations??? I swear all he is trying to do is control and manipulate me! And, sadly it still works sometimes..
